Parent Advisory Council

FRIENDS has established a Parent Advisory Council to provide useful overall program direction and guidance to the activities of the National Center. Committee members share their experience and expertise in child abuse prevention and family strengthening through their active participation in FRIENDS workgroups and the annual Grantee’s meeting, development/review of FRIENDS written materials, and by providing resource center staff with consultation and advice.

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Region 1


Region 4

  • Eileen Graham (GA)
  • Valerie Lebanion (KY)
  • Vadonna Williams (AL)
  • Anntoinette Johnson (TN)
  • Bruce Bynum, PAC Alumni (SC)
  • Sam Bowman Fuhrmann, PAC Alumni  (NC)
  • Beth Stodghill, PAC Alumni (TN)

Region 7

  • Sam Blue, PAC Alumni (MO)
  • Jessica Diel, PAC Alumni (MO)

Region 2

  • Melba Marcela Henao (NJ)
  • Michael Cupeles (NJ)
  • David Armstrong (NJ)


Region 5

  • Joanne Hodgeman (MN)
  • Anthony Queen, PAC Mentor (MI)
  • Brook Hoffbauer, PAC Alumni (MN)

Region 8

  • Heather Stenson (MT)


Region 10

  • Jill Gentry, PAC Alumni (OR)
  • Fatima Gonzalez-Galindo, PAC Alumni (WA)
  • Dawn Patzer, PAC Alumni (WA)

Region 3

  • Elizabeth Reddick (DC)
  • Eliza Cooper, PAC Alumni (MD)
  • Stephanie Eckhard, PAC Alumni (MD)

Region 6

  • Paula Bibbs-Samuels (TX)
  • Raven Sigure, PAC Mentor (LA)

Region 9

  • Melissa Zimmerman (AZ)
  • Art Hernandez, PAC Alumni (CA)

Members of the team include:

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David Armstrong

David Armstrong (NJ) is married to his high school sweetheart and has two adult daughters, a twelve-year-old and a twenty-year-old grandson (legal guardian) who was diagnosed with special health care needs at an early age. David volunteers with Parent Partner on the Essex County/NJ state Early Childhood Comprehensive Systems COIIN team to support systems in becoming more father-friendly.  He is a state and national trainer, serves as a parent liaison, and strives to educate, empower, engage, and encourage parents to take an active role in their children’s development and well-being. David collaborates with other family leaders across the country to bring families together to increase their collective voices and advocate for policies and educational research that promote the well-being of young children and their families regardless of race, religion, or socioeconomic status.  David continually looks for more ways to expand his leadership capacity to engage, educate, and empower fathers and grandfathers to become more involved in the well-being of their children’s/grandchildren’s life, starting from when they are born or even prenatally, so those children can experience better outcomes and reach their full potential.

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Paula Bibbs-Samuels

Paula Bibbs-Samuels (TX) has over 20 years of parent leadership experience which includes serving as a commissioner for the Texas Children’s Commission, a parent liaison for the Texas Parent Collaboration Council, and Region 1 Parent Liaison. Paula is currently working with Texas PEI and Thriving Families, Safer Children Phase II to help bring attention to and eradicate racial inequities within systems. Paula, a Licensed Professional Counselor, continues to work in parent leadership efforts within birth, foster, and kinship families.  Paula is a mother of 7 as a result of a blended family, and a former kinship placement. Paula expresses that the work she does for families is her passion. Helping others is her drive.

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Michael Cupeles

Michael Cupeles (NJ) is a champion of early childhood education, paternity, family, and community.  Michael focuses on Fatherhood and is Nationally Certified through F&FCA and NFI. As an ordained minister and chaplain, his passion is to stand up for human rights. Michael is the coordinator of the men's initiative at Gateway Community Action Partnership Early Head Start & Head Start and Chairman of the AmeriCorps Seniors Foster Grandparents Advisory Committee.  He serves on school boards and is a board member of the New Jersey Local Selective Service System Region 1, and a member of the New Jersey Department of Children & Family, Office of Family Voice Fatherhood Engagement Committee acting as a Liaison to the New Jersey Head Start Association.  Michael is also the VP/Chief Strategy Planning and Development Officer for Latino X Radio, a non-profit in New Jersey. His heart and passion is to see community grow as we walk together through the human experience that we like to call life.

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Eileen Graham

Eileen Graham (GA) is a native of Rochester, New York but is currently living in McDonough, Georgia. She is the proud parent of three children; college graduates Brandi and Brandon and a school-aged daughter, Brielle. Eileen has two grandsons (Jamari and Mehkai) whom she completely adores. Ms. Graham is an educator and fearless leader but she enjoys working in roles and that involve team building and collaboration. She is a mentor, friend, and servant leader. Ms. Graham volunteers as a council member on the Georgia Parent Advisory Council. Advisor and member with ROC (Rochester, NY) Coalition for Public Education, she is also an honorary member with NYSAPE (New York State Allies for Public Education). Eileen believes education is vital to developing and preparing children for the future. Ms. Graham is dedicated to making sure parents are well-informed because she feels well-informed parents make well-informed decisions. Eileen values spending time and making memories with family and friends.  Eileen believes in the power of leadership and collaboration and has made a lifetime commitment to utilizing her strengths to effectively lead and bring about change.


Melba Marcela Henao

Melba Marcela Henao (NJ) was determined to break the cycle of abuse after the birth of her son. Becoming a mother empowered Ms. Henao to use her struggles as a driving force to advocate for women's and children’s rights. Ms. Henao is an alumnus of New Leadership, The Center for American Women and Politics, at the Eagleton Institute at Rutgers University. She has been actively involved as Leader Parent with the (UCCYC) Union County Council for Young Children since 2015 and joined the Family Advisory Council for Newark Beth Israel Medical Center & Children’s Hospital of NJ. Henao is a Confidential Sexual Violence Advocate (CSVA) with the County Rape Crisis Center (CRCC).

As the Community Liaison for an adult day medical center in NJ, Henao is part of an Intergenerational task force with non-profit coalitions focusing on intergenerational connections. Ms. Henao believes in the importance of bringing together diverse age groups as a way to strengthen families and prevent domestic violence and abuse. She is one of 16 parent advisors who collaborated in the Aspen Postsecondary Success for Parents Initiative, with Ascend, The Aspen Institute in Washington DC. Ms. Henao holds an Associates's degree in Social Science and is pursuing a bachelor’s degree in Social Work while simultaneously running an all women's support group in her community that focuses on ending the cycle of domestic violence and abuse. Henao is a passionate advocate of women and children, as well as a voice for the community, and desires to be a continuous beacon of hope for those considered the most vulnerable.

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Joanne Hodgeman

Joanne Hodgeman (MN) is a single mother of three. Being an alumnus of foster care, she has been a long-time youth and family advocate. Joanne is a founding board member and co-chair of Foster Alum Minnesota (FAM). She is also a parent leader with Minnesota Communities Caring for Children (formerly Prevent Child Abuse MN) and serves on a variety of committees, task forces and community initiatives that focus on youth and families. Joanne is a licensed social worker with extensive training in trauma and is currently employed as a mental health case manager. Joanne and her children reside in St. Paul, MN.

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Anntionette Johnson

Anntionette Johnson (TN) is a native Memphian, parent to six, grandparent of one. She recently retired and will start to devote more time advocating for foster parents, children, and the voiceless community. Anntionette has been a foster parent for nineteen years and serves as a trainer for potential foster to adopt parents. She currently serves as Co-chairperson for Nurture the Next and is a Parent Leader.

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Valerie Lebanion

Valerie Lebanion (KY) has been an advocate for children since her first child started school 28 years ago and she hasn’t stopped yet. She has earned her Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and serves as the Kentucky State Parent Leader for Community Collaboration for Children. Valerie has served with Parents Anonymous as a Parent Group Facilitator and currently is working as a certified Nurturing Parenting instructor. Valerie serves on the state Child and Family Services Plan Continuous Quality Improvement Committee. Valerie lives in Corbin, Kentucky. She is the mother of six children, grandmother of three beautiful children, and has been happily married for 30 years.

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Anthony Queen

Anthony Queen (MI) got involved in home visiting when the mother of his son passed away. He and his son received services for a two-year period and upon completion of services he was asked to come on board as a parent representative. Since becoming a representative, he has been trained in Strengthening Families, Parents Partnering for Change, Adaptive School Foundation, Inside/Out Dad's Initiative, and Parent Cafés and is the co-chairman of the local Diaper Drive program. Anthony is a member of his county's Great Start Parent Coalition and has been a keynote and breakout speaker for the Michigan Home Visiting conference(s). He specializes in taking the home visiting continuum message to underserved communities and getting fathers involved.

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Elizabeth Reddick

Elizabeth Reddick (Washington, DC) is a military veteran, mother of five, and Disability Rights Advocate. She is the Youth Work Group Leader of the Family and Youth Committee of the DC Coordinating Council of School Behavioral Health, where she focuses on amplifying youth voices. As a member of DC's Protection & Advocacy for Individuals with Mental Illness (PAIMI) Advisory Council, Ms. Reddick strives to hold agencies responsible for providing equitable systems of care while creating inclusive and safe spaces. She is also a Parents Amplifying Voices in Education (PAVE) Ward 7 PLE Board Member. Ms. Reddick is trained in trauma-informed care and Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). As a Peer Support person, she believes in sharing lived experiences, reducing stigma, and fostering an environment where self-care includes mental and behavioral health resources.

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Raven Sigure

Raven Sigure (LA) is a passionate parent advocate, wife and mother of 5 children. After involvement with child protective services and having several of her children removed and placed in kinship care, Raven received treatment and was able to reunify with her children. Several months after reunification the Louisiana Department of Children & Family Services asked Raven to take a job as the first parent partner of Louisiana to help families involved in the child welfare system. She has served as parent partner at the Extra Mile Resource Center for over 6 years and is also a member of the Children's Justice Act Task Force, the Birth Parent National Network and the Pelican Center for Children & Families.


Heather Stenson

Heather Stenson (MT) is a Family Development Specialist as a Montana SafeCare coach and home visitor and a National Trainer and Facilitator of Montana Circle of Parents. Heather and her husband of 23 years, John, have two beautiful sons, Zach and Ryan. Heather and John learned the hard way that raising children isn’t easy, especially when your child has special health care needs and live in an area with limited access to specialists. Heather started working as a SafeCare home visitor in 2014 where she found her voice and peer support. Heather used her ability to start a support group to help other families in her community parenting children with special health care needs or mental health conditions. Heather, in partnership with the Montana Children’s Special Health Services, created Montana Circle of Parents. Heather has an Associate’s Degree in Early Childhood Education and has received extensive training in areas that support child abuse and neglect prevention.  Heather is a certified Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE’s) trainer and Supervised Visit Provider and sits on boards and committees throughout the state.  Heather often says that she has a “fire in her belly” to advocate for individuals who can’t advocate for themselves. In 2019 she and a colleague were recognized with Montana’s Pinwheels for Prevention Award in 2019 for helping families.  Heather enjoys learning new things, meeting new people with the same passions and goals, and loves being out in nature, and spending quality time with her family. Heather was nominated for the PAC by the Montana Children’s Trust Fund.


Vadonna Williams

Vadonna Williams (AL) is a devoted mother of two sons and a wife to husband Leonard since 1997. She is a dedicated advocate for children and families in Tuscaloosa and throughout Alabama. She has nearly 16 years of parent leadership experience which includes her role as a Parent Leadership Coordinator, Peer Leader, and Facilitator of parenting classes. In addition, she has held the position of Director of the Parenting Dept. with Tuscaloosa’s One Place. Vadonna has been very fortunate to have been appointed, by the Governor of Alabama, to currently serve on the Board of Directors for the Alabama Partnership for Children as the Parent Representative. She also is a founding member of their Family Advisory Committee.  In addition, she serves as a Steering Committee member of the National Early Childhood Family Network. Vadonna was nominated for the FRIENDS PAC by Alabama Partnership for Children.


Melissa Zimmerman

Melissa Zimmerman (AZ) lives in Phoenix, Arizona with her daughter, Taylor, and her father.  She is a dedicated family advocate in her community.  She was previously involved with the Department of Child Safety (DCS) formally Child Protective Services and was able to successfully navigate the child welfare system and behavioral health systems to reunite with her daughter.  She advocates for the parents that she works with to be their voice in advocating for their families. She also advocates for parents and foster parents to have a shared parenting relationship while their children are in care.

Today, Melissa has seven years of sobriety and is a Recovery Coach for Terros Health with the Families F.I.R.S.T (Families In Recovery Succeeding Together) program helping families reunite with their children.  She uses her life experiences to forge a deep connection with parents bringing them her own life experience to help guide them to success.  Her knowledge is crucial in helping individuals and families navigate the complicated public health and child protection system in Arizona by having a voice to advocate for themselves.  Melissa currently holds a Bachelor of Science Degree in Criminal Justice and is a Certified Peer Support that includes Forensic Peer Support as well. She is a part of the Parent Advisory Collaborative for Arizona and is currently a part of the Birth Foster Parent Partnership (BFPP) and the Birth Parent National Network (BPNN). Melissa is also a part of the statewide S.E.N.S.E training for Arizona.  Melissa was nominated for the PAC by the Arizona Department of Child Safety.

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